Seeing or dating? That is the question!

Yes people, I’m going to do one on relationships but not the Oprah or Ricki Lake way, let’s talk simple and just explain what is seeing someone, dating someone, being exclusive with someone, etc. Oh yeah, and why did I come up with this topic for my second one. 

Well, last Saturday I spend the entire day watching football with the guys. Imagine  - one girl and 9 guys, you think Omg she's a lucky one! Amm not really (just joking guys, you are all really ‘nice’). But a funny thing happened which to tell you the truth I would never expect from a group of guys; they started to talk about what’s the difference between seeing somebody or dating somebody. Until then I thought only girls have this kind of conversations - well no. 

My definition of the two things is:

      1. Seeing somebody; you like this person, you go out with him/her, you like to hang out with this person but you don’t really want to commit or be exclusive about the whole thing. On the other hand that doesn’t mean you can sleep around with everybody that comes on your way – SAFETY FIRST KIDS! 

      2. Dating somebody; so you finished the first part which is seeing with him/her and now you want to evolve and take the next step but still is not yet ‘’boyfriend-girlfriend’’ type of thing so a big shout out to the people that like to rush things – TAKE IT SLOW! Really get to know the person in front of you, trust me, been there-done that!  I always say, if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. 

This is my humble opinion and I admit, I go by my rules.. Yes, I have rules and I know in love there are no rules, but before the love and everything else, there are rules. Everybody has a rule or 2 for dating, don’t you?

Ok, if it’s love at first sight-well you can’t help that! God bless you lucky muddafuckers! (in a nice way said).

But if you like somebody, go on with a 5-date rule; 5 different places, 5 different dates, 5 different scenarios and I have to say to all my girls, let the man sweat a little bit. I’m of an opinion that a gentleman always gets 10points extra. Open the door for a lady or maybe the cliché trick of the ‘’chair’’ in the restaurant is still in fashion and trust me, every woman on earth is going to appreciate that and maybe give you her number! 
Give dates a twist, it’s not always just the old fashion drinks and dinner. Take her to an amusement park or a picnic in the park (if its rainy, you can always have a picnic on the floor in your living room!) BE CREATIVE, we only live once!

So for everybody; take it slow, enjoy dating and getting to know someone, don’t rush things but wait for the right moment because when that moment comes, is fucking AMAZING! 

Song for this one: http://youtu.be/uvkgnm8jcyY

"Anything worth doing is worth doing slowly." - Mae West

The opening act - music

Listening to Ed Sheeran at the moment, which to tell you the truth I discovered a long time ago with the song ‘’You need me, I don’t need u’’. Today, when I listen to a cover of ‘’The A team’’ made by the newcomers The Loveable Rogues (more about them later), I realized that this little twenty year old ginger singer is quite good!

Ed sound is fresh, songs are real, everybody can find a little piece of them self inside these songs. Plus is one of my top albums right now. Plus is a good ‘’therapy’’ for these rainy days here in London.

My name is Saraja - a wannabe actress, presenter, stylist, musician, dancer, (pretty much everything) trying to find her career in the great London city. I said to myself; everybody is ‘’blogging’’, why shouldn't I?